Jounrees Culturelles

Hello Everyone!

I hope things are going well for you and yours. Last night I got to talk to my Aunt Eileen, Uncle Gary, and my cousin Seamus who were all visiting Boston. It was so good to get to talk to them and hear how things are!

It’s been a good, if scattered week here. Tuesday and Wednesday I visited the workstation in Kandi. I got some work done, and got to visit with Alyssa, who also recently visited home. I also got to reunite with my second bag from my trip home. Taking two suitcases full of stuff (and a cat) back into Founougo seemed like too much, so I left one bap with Peace Corps for later. It was so exciting to finally get to that bag. I finally was able to enjoy the incredibly thoughtful birthday gift Megan made for me, in addition to treats from home like a shower bag and recent Time Magazines.

Inspired by my new winnings and some internet perusing, when I got back to my house in Founougo, I did a major reorganization session.  I finally set up a ‘bathroom sink area’ with my nice mirror, all my toiletries, and a large bowl for water, all on what used to be an entrance way table. I also hung up the pictures I got from Meg while at home. I’m really happy with the changes and the neighbors were pretty impressed too. They love the pictures Meg sent of the students and campers that she has worked with.

All that said, coolest thing that happened this week was yet to come. On Friday and Saturday the C.E.G. or secondary school held it’s annual ‘Jounees Culturelles’; which is a lot like field day. Friday morning a big procession of students paraded through town lead by a drummer and several students dressed as wise old men. Then there were games like Jeopardy and a game like ‘pin the tail on the donkey’ where students tried to pick prizes, and a game where you tried to kick a soccer ball through a tire. All the while there was music and dancing. In the afternoon there was a soccer game between the teachers and students, and Camille (who is my postmate, and and English teacher at the CEG) got to play in the game! She even got the honor of kicking the ball to start the game. I took pictures and was proud. It was really hot and sunny, I don’t know if I could do that! The teachers and students both played impressively well and it was fun and funny to be sitting at a high school sporting event again.

There was supposed to be dancing in the evening, but it looked like it was going to rain (and eventually it did) so things broke up a little early. The next day I was feeling a little sick and wound up spending the day resting at home.

I needed the rest, but I also knew I would thank myself on Sunday, when I hopped from my morning church service, to afternoon service at a friend’s church near Banikoara, with lots of food and visiting in between. All of it was really enjoyable, and I am glad I had a little rest going into it.

Those are the major news updates here this week. I hear exciting things are happening in hockey for Bruins and Pens fans. Enjoy those games, obviously they have the two best teams in them!

Thanks for reading, I am grateful to get to share this experience with you!

With Love,

Lauren

Letting Walls Down

Hi everyone,

Over the last week I have discovered something that has been missing in my life – a little kid that wants to touch all my stuff. This little girl, who like me and basically everyone else is called Bake (Bah-KAY). She is visiting the family that lives in the concessions around me. She showed up one day, trailing my 11 year neighbor behind her, and just started rattling on in Bariba (regardless that I don’t really speak it) and singing and dancing and wanting to look at all the things. Since then some of the boys in my concession (Jean-Marie, Sarre, Phillipe, and Giael) have felt more comfortable coming into my house and hanging out too.

Honestly, it’s kind of a welcome change. When I first moved in here, the kids were old enough to be a little bit shy and to respect my space. At first I really appreciated that. It was good to have the privacy and security. Over time I have gotten to trust my neighbors more and more, through positive interactions, and especially since they have watched my cat Jack a few times. I think that it’s always good to be aware of your stuff, but I am at a point where I feel comfortable opening up a little more. And frankly it can be a little lonely having all that privacy!

Now Bake will often come in at some point in the day and I will give her paper and a pencil or a magazine to look at. One of the first times she and a few boys came in, they asked, “Do you have cards or something we could play?” As it happened I did have Uno, still in it’s plastic wrap from training. Apparently the kids recognized it from a previous volunteer back in 2008-2010 and they were excited to get to play again. We have set up an informal schedule of playing a couple rounds before lunch and dinner every day.

The kids sometimes come in and tell me that the floor needs to be swept and start cleaning it before I have a chance to respond. Sometimes I tell them I am going to go get water from the well and they take the bucket out of my hand. All the hanging out has been great for my Bariba, and great socialization for Jack too.

Of course they have lots of questions about all my weird fancy American stuff. I had been dreading those questions, but actually, it’s felt good to be honest and get to share some of that stuff (though I haven’t unveiled the laptop yet!) It has lead to some funny conversations like “What’s this?” “Sunscreen, it protects my skin from the sun.” “What’s this?” “Mouthwash, it helps make your teeth stronger.” “What’s this?” “Sunscreen.” “What’s this?” “Actually, that’s also sunscreen.”

I decided to be brave and show them my digital camera. They love it and they are even pretty good about not touching the lens and all that. I am happy to have a team of photographers to take the pictures of the concession that I was too shy to take. However, they do really like taking pictures of my shelves, bike, and frog wall calendar. I don’t think those pictures will hit Facebook.

Amidst the newly discovered socialization, there has been some work getting done. With the help of the secondary school administration, I picked a scholarship girl. Her name is Adiza (Ah-DEE-zah) and she is very shy, but wrote a good application. I hope that I can bring her out a little bit and find effective ways to support her. Almost none of the secondary school kids have cellphones and she lives kind of far from me, so it will be interesting. There’s always something to move forward with.

Besides that, we are compiling lists of latrine recipients to announce on the radio. After that I am afraid that project will be on hold until July, since it doesn’t make sense to start construction (and therefore hold information/training sessions) until the end of the rainy season. Girls Camp is coming up soon and some of the preparations and paperwork for that are underway.

I also cut my hair the other night. I am happy to say that the faux-hawk is back. I will post pictures soon. I had been thinking about it for a while, and then, like jumping in a pool, I just decided I was going to do it. I am really happy with how it turned out, but suspect there may be some uneven parts. Camille is coming over this afternoon, and hopefully she will be able to help me out if need be. My neighbors haven’t said anything about it. I don’t know if it means they haven’t noticed, they don’t like it, or it just doesn’t seem like it needs to be commented on, that could be a cultural thing. With hair braiding, people’s hairstyles often change dramatically over night. Anyway, I chose to play it casual and not really mention it, and they seem to have followed suit.  

I have to say, getting to interact more with my neighbors, really feeling confident that I know their names, getting to share my life a little more, it really makes me feel like I’ve ‘leveled up’. I’m in the second third of my service, and the new volunteers will be arriving in a little more than a month. How crazy is that? I am glad to be here. Glad I’m still learning, and glad I get to share all of this with you!

As always, thanks for reading,

With love,

Lauren

Women's Day and Camp Applications

Hello Everyone!

Life has been busy this week! The Latrine Project is charging along, as we continue to view possible sites for construction. It is also the last week of classes at the CEG, or secondary school. That caught me by surprise, and I am scrambling to select students for summer camps and a scholarship for next year. I am excited about all of these things, especially the scholarship girl, so I am trying to really hustle to have all the meetings and paperwork in order to make them happen.

I have also gotten an opportunity to read some 60 applications from students, with more to come. There have been some really good answers and a lot of really funny ones. Sometimes students didn’t understand what the question was asking. For example, on the Environmental Camp application, I asked what they thought were significant threats to the environment. Some people started listing things like plants and trees and one person even said God! It’s been interesting that’s for sure. Their have been some applications that rose to the top, and I am excited to get to work with these kids at camp (Scholarship girl will be picked next week).

My church is having a big party on Sunday to celebrate women (in connection with Mother’s Day?). I actually had a meeting with my pastor because, to put it mildly, I didn’t think there was enough emphasis on the strong and assertive women of the Bible. You know, Deborah, Esther, Miriam, Ruth, Abigail, Rahab, Mary, Mary, Lydia, Phoebe, just to name a few. He seemed pretty receptive.

In addition for trying to do some cursory theological women’s empowerment lessons, Women’s Day does also mean that the church ordered a specific printed fabric for the Day. I bought some meters, and it is being stitched up right now. I am actually really excited to have a matching outfit with my church. Getting matching outfits is something that families will do, as well as clubs or organizations, and, as in this case, for special holidays. I don’t know, it makes me feel included! I will try to muster up the courage to take pictures.

Those are the updates now. Thanks for reading!

With love,

Lauren

a fish and three cakes

Hello everyone,

Happy May! This week has had a surprising number of celebrations here in the commune of Banikoara, so it’s been a fun week.

On Sunday I was excited to get back to the church I attend here, since I had missed the last couple Sundays because of travel. The service was good, but surprisingly short. Afterwards people were talking a about a party that would be held by the church in the town of Banikoara. They were making up a list of people going and someone turned to me and asked if I would like to go.

“Well, when is it?” I asked.

“Now!” they said.

With not much else planned for my Sunday afternoon, I said yes and piled in to the truck that would take us to Banikoara. I was happy to socialize with people from my church, but as soon as the bumpy, crowded truck ride started, I began to regret my decision. It turned out to be worth the long ride though, because the church service was very nice (I am jealous of the guitar and bass that the Banikoara worship band has!) the food was good (fried fish), and I even met two different people who had very good relationships with previous Peace Corps volunteers. All of this was very encouraging at a time when I was feeling a little homesick and lonely. By the time we were heading back, even the truck breaking down didn’t sway me from thinking that I was pretty lucky.

Tuesday was Camille’s birthday, and Suzanne and Josh were able to come and visit. It was great to see them and catch up (and good motivation to really clean my house too!). I got to surprise Camille with a homemade vanilla-chocolate chip cake. It was a little crumbly, but she seemed very happy about it. We had a great time walking around Founougo, sharing stories and work tips, and celebrating Camille.

We ate birthday dinner and cake at my house, and my neighbors teased that they hadn’t been invited. They don’t know Camille very well, so I don’t think our small party was a major faux pas, but I did feel a little bad. That was still on my mind when the lock on my front door, which is often sticky, finally gave up the ghost and refused to turn. My neighbors got a welder who, for four bucks, took the whole door off and replaced the lock.

That afternoon, my neighbor Pena was hanging around, so she and I baked a cake together which I gave to my neighbors to thank them for their help.

It was good to have all the cake ingredients out again because… Thursday was Josh’s birthday! So as soon as my neighbor’s cake was out of the Dutch oven, I put Josh’s cake in, completing my cake hat trick.

On Thursday Camille and I visited Josh’s village, Goumori, for the first time. It was funny to see Josh and also Suzanne again so soon. And I have to say, Josh knows how to throw a party! One of his neighbors had given him a sparkly shirt in traditional fabric, and Josh had organized for a donkey cart to drive us all around village. It was so much fun. That donkey can move!

Aside from all the fun and festivities (“party-party-party” as my Dad says) work does continue to move along apace. This week I got word that the Director of Peace Corps Benin officially approved the Latrine project, and the money is on its way! We have been getting green lights all the way through, but it certainly is a proud moment to know that the grant really was approved.

Besides that there has been some continued networking for the rabbit-raising project and for summer camps. Unfortunately none of that yielded any particular anecdotes this week. Stay tuned!

On Sunday the Director of Peace Corps Benin is coming to visit Banikoara commune. Hopefully that will all go well. It is exciting to have the opportunity to show him where we all live and work. Camille and I are still working on the agenda for his visit to Founougo.

Those are the news items for this week. I hope you are all doing well, I think of you very often.

Thanks for reading,

With love,

Lauren